Pahla Qadam

Jab aik bacha talimi maidan main qadam rakhta hai to ghar walay apni khuhishat kay mutabiq os say bhhat si tawaqat wabasta kar laytay hain.Pahlay din say ye soch lya jata hai kay maira bacha bara ho kar doctor, engineer,waqeel, businessmen or isi tarah kay baray ohday ka hamil insan banay ga.Is tarha bachay ki zahni salahiyat,oskay rujhan or qabliyat janay baghair is say tawquat wabasta kar li jati hai.

Bacha jaisay jaisay talimi mrahil tay karta jata hai us par in tawqat ko pora karnay ka dabao barhta jata hai.Bacha agar is dabao ko bardasht nhi kar pata to talim say bhagna shoro kar daita hai.Or oska dil parhaye say ochat ho jata hai.Doosri taraf bhair chal ki waja say aik shakhs jo kar raha hota hai doosra bhi oski pairwi ki koshish karta hai jiski waja say talim say shaor kay bajaye bayshaori paida ho rahi hai.

Bachay ko school main dakhil karwanay ki omer 5 say 6 sal ki hoti hai.Is omer tak gharwalon ki zimadari hoti hai kay who bachon ki tarbiyat karain lakin moashray main apni zimadariyon ko nibhanay ka rujhan napaid hota jaraha hai.Doosri taraf talim ko tijarat bana dya gya hai.Talimi idaray apni aamdani main izafay kay liye choti omer main hi bachon ko school main dakhil karwanay ki  targib daitay hain.Laihaza bachay ki woh omer jis main who ghar main rah kar ikhlaqi,kirdari or mosharati tarbiyat hasil kata hai who school ki nazar hojata hai.

Jab bachay ki kisi shobay main janay ki omer aati hai to andhi taqlid or apni khoaish ki takmil kay liye bachay kay rujhan or oski qablyat janay baghair shobay ka intikhab kar lya jata hai.Jiski waja say bachay ki salahiyat dab jati hain or woh shoq kay bajaye dabao kay tahat talim hasil kar raha hota hai.

Isi tarha school kay intikhab main school kay maiyar ko nahi bulkay oskay nam,bastay kay wazan or manhgi fees ko tarjih di jati hai.yahi waja hai kay bacha jab school main dakhil ho ta hai to oski tawjah talim par kam numashi kamon par zyada ho ti hai.Isi musabiqat ki waja say  bacha talim say bhagna shoro ho jata hai.Agar hum chahtay hain kay hamaray bachay talimi maidan main taraqi karain to hamain in baton ko madde nazar rakhna hoga;

1.School kay intikhab main school kay maiyar ko tarjih daina.

2.Bachay ko is dabao say aazad karna kay osnay baray ho kar kya banna hai.

3.Os kay liye shobay ka intikhab kartay waqt oski zahni salahiyat,qabliyat or oskay rujhan ko madde nazar rakhna.

4.Aisay nisab ko chunna jo bachon ki qabliyat or salahiyat ko ojagar karai.

5.Talimi nisab main itna hi mawad shamil kya jaye jo onki zahni istadad kay mutabiq ho.

6.Aihd-e-hazir say mutabiqat rakhnay walay mazamin shamil-e-nisab hon.

7.Madri zaban main hasil ki gye talim zyada karaamad hoti hai.